Delivered from Distraction (Edward M. Hallowell, M.D. and John J. Ratey, M.D. , Ballantine Books 2005) has a "SPIN" on why we get stuck:
- S is shame
- P is pessimism and negativity
- I is isolation
- N is "no creative outlet"
Slowly, your to-do list becomes a Dicken's novel and your workspace a pile farm. You feel overwhelmed, and start spinning.
Your first action should be a deep breath, followed by a quick check-in of SPIN:
- Shame: Believe me, you aren't the only one in this situation. We've all been there. There is no reason to feel shame about such a human condition.
- Pessimism: Ahem, yes there is hope. You're reading this blog, for one thing. Move on to . . .
- Isolation: Here's an action step you can take - don't wallow alone! Ask for assistance from a friend, co-worker (see if you can motivate each other), or a professional, such as myself.
- No Creative Outlet: Don't deny yourself fun until you clean up your act. That's the most unproductive thing you can do. Stepping away (for a day or two, not forever) may give you insights you won't get otherwise. My creative outlet is hiking, and I often find my best thoughts come to me unbidden while I hike. Dr Hallowell says your creative outlet is your "doorway to flow" and “To get out of spin, play.” I heartily agree.



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